You're not winning by entering the cap first, also not by capping it first - you win by taking the cap last and keeping it.   Ok, there is no away around it and I don't mean it disrespectful, although you gave ample reason: You much worse than what WG themselves considers to be plain bad. First thing - it's you and not your team, you are the liablity, they have to drag you through the matches because apart from taking up a slot and being a damage sponge for a short while, you don't provide much. So I would politely ask you to get rid of the notion that your team figts as if they don't want to win, that they stay back because they just roll their face on the keyboard. They just do things you do not understand. Please learn the basics: