If you're a good player, you're still gonna impact the game more than an average player on the other team. The chance for you having a bad player(s) is just as high as for the enemy team, so using that as an argument is just stupid.
I agree with this, i think the torping should be limited a bit more, beacuse the spam is a bit ridicilous right now, on the other side, giving them limited torps would also gut DDs too much, so longer reloads is as you say probably best solution
I've had a blast so far in my roughly 25-30 games. Sadly though my PC that already was somewhat bad for playing WoT is really struggling when there is massive battles going on. So i wish they could possibly put in the option to lower render resolution like they had in the other 2 games
But other than that, i honestly believe Wargaming has got themselves potentially a top top tier game here